I feel like once dany has the seven kingdoms under her belt, she might grow bored after a while. After all, she is the best conquer alive at the moment, I feel like she might want to conquer something else. Then again, it is described as her wanting to settle. what do you think Amy?

asoiafuniversity:

muttpeeta:

i don’t think her driving motivation is conquering. i think her primary motivation(s) are helping and protecting people; reclaiming her family’s seat; finding or making a home for herself.

to be honest, i’m kinda staring at this ask a little perplexed. are you a fan of Dany’s? because thinking she’d grow “bored” by ruling because she has a thirst for conquering is kind of strange, to me. that’s just not how i interpret her character at all. she even says in the books: “I was tired, Jorah. I was weary of war. I wanted to rest, to laugh, to plant trees and see them grow.”

i also find it weird when people say Dany doesn’t enjoy ruling and wouldn’t enjoy being queen. i’m not sure if it’s ultimately something that will bring her joy, no. and should it? no, not if she’s a person who cares deeply about people and their suffering. i imagine a good, sympathetic leader is often weighted down by their decisions and the challenges their people face. because if you have empathy, which she does, then you’ll always be struggling to make things better for others. but regardless, how i interpret her arc in Meereen, her growing unhappiness, isn’t because ruling is boring to her, it’s because she feels too much, and she’s being broken down and forced to compromise by people who ultimately betray her because she so desperately wants peace for her people. the unhappiness is because she knows it’s not working. compromising with slavers is not working.

she might not be happy ruling the seven kingdoms, but it won’t be because she’s bored. it’ll be because she will have to rule over a continent ravaged by war. that’s going to be a miserable time, bringing her people back from that. but if she has a home and a family, things that could truly bring her happiness, while she tries to restore her kingdom, then i think she would be fine staying where she is.

#ruling isn’t easy #it’s not a game #there are consequences for every action #i think that’s part of grrm’s message #and how it’s not as simple as ‘and he ruled wisely’ in the end

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It’s curious how the idea of Daenerys getting hurt has her fans in a tizzy. It’s a new one to them since she hasn’t had a scratch on her since season 1. Now contrast it with the multitude of injuries and near-death experiences Jon has suffered, too many to count. She’s the only major character who has been spared from physical injuries (bar stillbirth). it’s high time she got roughed up some.

housestargaryan:

soiaf17:

mudinyourlungs:

mywishingglass:

mudinyourlungs:

“it’s high time she got roughed up some.” – That’s a really fucked up thing to say about a character that’s been raped and physically abused. Wtf is wrong with you? And why are you comparing her to Jon, this isn’t a competition. Just because she hasn’t been stabbed, doesn’t make her pain any less. Screw you.

Also are people just ignoring how she was starving and almost half dead in Season 2 before they got to Qarth and then in Season 6 where she was being whipped and dragged by the Dothraki. Or even in Season 3 when she almost got stung by that bug thing. Like
 are we watching the same show guys? It’s not like Dany has been queen 24/7 For the last 7 seasons. Did you not listen to her speech from 7×03? Girl has been through some crazy shit.

I can’t. People really think Dany is some pampered princess who’s lived in the lap of luxury her whole life. What bullshit. Even Jon’s had a better childhood than her, yes even as a bastard. He’s always had a home, always had a family even if Catelyn hated his guts. Dany has been through hell and I’m tired of people disregarding her like this.

This.. All this

feminism-fandom-and-fawning:

asongofdany:

ladyluckless:

me when dany forces people to hear all of her titles which are essentially victories she’s won in her very hard climb from the bottom to where she is now: 

“Queen of Meereen”: By right of conquest.

“Queen of the Andals, and the Rhoynar and the First Men”: Although technically a claim, she’s actually going to save that mother fucking country and the people, and she has a right as it is the legacy of her family, a legacy they created, so I won’t fight her on this.

“The unburnt”: A freaking goddess, I tell you.

“Khaleesi of the Great Grass Sea” : The first time all the dothraki unite behind one leader, a woman, and let me tell you, this title is an understatement because she’s actually the Stallion Who Mounts The World.

“Breaker of chains” : She made her personal mission to help the slaves, free them, and maintain that freedom. Slavers Bay, no more.

“Mother of Dragons” : She brought dragons to life, the last dragons in the world, after more than a century of being extinct.

How many people can say that they have done most of these things
.on their own right


You will listen, and you will respect.

^
THIS.

I know it is a fandom joke – “lol daenerys and her hundred titles”, but in a world where men get to hold titles for no reason other than their birth, and are immediately respected by people of westeros and real world fans alike for the smallest acts of goodness; I have no issues with Daenerys’s million titles which she earned through her hard work, intuition and wits.

Also it reminds me of this poem by Warsan Shire:

give your daughters difficult names.
give your daughters names that command the full use of tongue.
my name makes you want to tell me the truth.
my name doesn’t allow me to trust anyone that cannot pronounce it right.

aryainwinterfell:

lizstargaryen:

feminism-fandom-and-fawning:

outerds:

feminism-fandom-and-fawning:

outerds:

White people who don’t understand colonialism or imperialism talking shit about Daenerys Targaryen, meanwhile brown and black people with an intimate, experiential knowledge of both, loving our niña because she uses her power to help people and respects peoples cultures. She doesn’t care what you look like or where you come from, only what actions you take.

Me whenever I hear the word ‘imperialist’ or ‘colonialist’ about Dany:

i had to read a white person say “poc don’t like her because she’s a colonizer.” me, a poc. I was dead.

Oh, I had to read how Dany was an ‘imperialist’ and ‘cruel’ because she destroyed the Slaver’s Bay economy. And she didn’t take enough steps to save that economy


Oh, you are worried about the economy
 Hmmm
 Gee
 I DON’T KNOW LUCINDA, MAYBE AN ECONOMY FUNCTIONING ON SLAVE LABOUR DESERVE TO BE DESTROYED!!

Jfc, the so called intellectuals exhaust me.

Another Black woman fan of Daenerys here. Her haters endlessly amuse me.

lol and I’m another woman of color who adores Dany.

I’ve always found it interesting that Dany haters misuse the terms colonialism or imperialism when criticizing her. They act like they have some kind of moral high ground, yet they’re the ones upset over a slave-based economy being crushed. It’s almost like they have more sympathy for the slavers than they do the former slaves who gained freedom.

And don’t get me started on how so many of them think they can speak for all POC as if we all only have one mind that they’re an authority on.

feminism-fandom-and-fawning:

asongofdany:

goobeerwood:

filmeditors:

They will not have my dragons, Dany vowed. They will not.

“ she had it easy “ yeah right. Wish she did. When all you people loved the other characters and think she didn’t suffer enough, they had to sell her mother’s crown just to eat for a week.

One of the things that make me sympathize with her is that she’s one of those who suffered the most.

She lost all her family, lived in poverty, always hungry, scared, and never safe, she had no childhood, never knew love and knew plenty of abuse. In a very sick relationship she found love and hope for a family, that’s the main reason she started to accept her fate and circumstances, but then it was taken all away, again, before she could grasp it.

We see how other characters suffer, their pains, their tears, the injustice done to them and is so easy to say that the went through so much more and criticize Daenerys because apparently her life is too perfect.

All the other children can remember their families with love, pride, cherish the many moments of happiness they shared, and hope to grow up to be like them and make them proud.

Daenerys cannot do it, and all she has is a hole that has always been empty. It’s so ironic, considering she has so much love to give, to her people, the slaves she freed and the dragons she brought to life.

Just because YOU don’t see it happening, it doesn’t mean it doesn’t affect her. Because it does.

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I have always felt that the reason why people ignore Dany’s tragic backstory and/or hardships is because we don’t get chapters/books establishing her character or setting. Her story in asoiaf starts in medias res.

In the very first chapter, she is getting engaged to Khal Drogo and things are happening to her (terrible things). There is NO establishing chapters where she is a naughty child or playing in the streets or laughing with her brother – so it is very easy to NOT sympathize with her and just see her as this tool for moving story forward (aka: dragons were needed, so she is dragon-lady). 

This also makes all her trauma and her past to be seen through her memories – which antis find easy to discard (it is her memories, she is biased arguments).

However, she is also a teenager like the other main characters of asoiaf. She also longs for home. She had her family killed. She has starved. She was sold. She was raped. She was thrust in a hugely patriarchal society whose language she didn’t speak at the time. She had to take some very difficult decisions as a child and as a teen. 

But yeah, let’s take the fanon characterization of “spoiled lady” or “entitled queen” and twist it to her canon characterization!