#okay, letās talk about this #i know that ed was insistent sometimes but #he was truly sweet to kristen at the beginning and she always treated him like he was nothing, making him feel useless and weird #cāmon look at his face in the left gifs #and now letās talk about edās genuine smile when oswald showed him kindness and appreciation #heās the first person whoās kind to him and who truly admire him #sooo wake up ed the love of your life is right in front of you
Like I feel bad for her cause having a guy insist on being with you when itās obvious you arenāt into him is scary and maddening.
But also like you said there is the point where she did treat him like garbage, then she only dated him cause he got shot for her and told her they were going to date. She never really loved him, she just wanted to make him a guy she would want. Oswald on the other hand seems to accept and genuinely enjoy Ed and his things that make him Ed.
^ Exactly!! šš¼šš¼šš¼
>Oswald wanted him around, exactly as he was. >Kristen didnāt want him around, and when she did deign to have him around he had to change the way he acted to please her.
please tell me which one is healthier like??? >>>itās a rhetorical question
Listenā¦Ā Ā This is why I didnāt and will never ship Ed and Kristen. She was mean to him and treated him like dirt. Like I understand that he was making unwanted advances but Ed didnāt understand that what he doing wasnāt okay. He doesnāt understand social interaction all that well, that was made clear in season 1.Ā
All Kristen did was yell and say mean things to him but I donāt think she ever told him that she wasnāt interested in him. Maybe she did and it just wasnāt shown and I know itās clear to everyone else that sheās not interested but it clearly wasnāt to Ed. And I get it, telling a guy to back off can be scary but she had no problem yelling at him and telling him that he is odd straight to his face, so I donāt think that was the issue. I think she found Ed annoying and weird but still liked the attention that he gave her.Ā
Like, I have a friend who used to have someone like her the way Ed liked Kristen. He did things for her and gave her gifts, called her phone a lot and sent texts despite her not replying, and basically stalked her so much that she would refer to him asĀ āstalkerā when we would talk about him. But, while she yelled at him sometimes for his behavior she never told him to back off because he wasnāt threatening or dangerous. She also never let me go after him for any of the weird shit he did even though I told her that I would beat him up and tell him off for her if he ever got to be too much (I was a violent person before). But the reason for that, as I found of later, was because she liked the attention even if she didnāt like him and found him annoying.Ā I think Kristen was the same way.
She didnāt want to encourage his feelings in anyway but she also still wanted to continue to receive attention from him. And listen, Iām not just pulling this out of nowhere.Ā
Remember the scene where Kristen walked in while Ed had Officer Doughertyās body in the sink? When Ed and Kristen interact normally Ed would compliment her or tell her a riddle, but in this instant she asks him questions and he just answers them and then waits for her to leave. No riddle, no compliment, nothing. When he tells her that he has to get back to work and he needs her to leave and he basically kicks her out, her reaction is one of surprise. Sheās just like, uhh okay, and gets ushered out the door. Edās not normally one to kick her out, normally sheās the one kicking him out. I think she was stalling a bit because she was expecting the usual riddle or compliment from Ed but wasnāt getting one, and didnāt get one. So, yeah, while she doesnāt like Ed she likes his attention.Ā
Even when she decides to date him, she only liked him because he was acting differently. She never liked Ed for him. She wanted him to change.
Oswald however, accepted Ed for who he was. Never expecting him to change, loving him and all his quirks, and constantly giving him positive feedback and validation. Oswald was the first person to truly show him kindness and genuine appreciation. Oswald is the true love of Edwardās life. He just needs to figure that out and I hope he does soon.
THIS ^ God this was brilliant. I needed this. Couldnāt have said it better myself.
As we approach yet another new Gotham episode this Monday, with the opening moves of Edās plan revealed, Iād like to make a quick observation about the nature of Edās revenge here.
Specifically, Iād like to talk about something Ed didnāt do. Because, if you had the choice of tormenting Oswald Cobblepot by haunting him with the ghost of one of his dead parents, which would you pick?
Iām guessing itās not his dad.
Yeah. Yeah. Think about that for a second for me. If you were REALLY intent on devastating Oswald with the ghost of one of his parents, which would you pick? Be real, itās not a difficult question. The choice is obvious. And yet⦠his dad.
Which begs the question, what is Ed really trying to achieve here?
To carry over from @freckledandspectacledās excellent meta found here, this is not really about Oswald at all. This is about Ed. This is about Ed working through his anger and feelings of betrayal and realigning how he feels about Oswald and how he sees himself in relation to Oswald. And yes, during this process, there is a compulsion to hurt Oswald. But⦠what kind of hurt? And how much?
Ed is very fond of SAYING things like destroying Oswald and a thousand deep cuts, etc, etc, but Iām not so sure thatās what he means. For example, he has never QUITE said that he wants to hurt Oswald the way he hurt him. So I think there is a line in the sand for Ed and there is a specific goal in mind for all of this, again, agreeing completely with what frectacled said, and I think itās reflected in his actions.
So letās get back to the example I provided, Ed chose DELIBERATELY to torment Oswald with the ghost of his father, not his mother. I think thatās seriously worth considering as a conscious choice because the effects would NOT amount to the same thing. Sure, Oswald was attached to his father, but going by just shared screen time alone, itās NOTHING compared to his mother. Mr. Cobblepot is there for 3 episodes, Mrs. Cobblepot for 10, three times as much screen time. And Ed, I need to point out, wasnāt there for ANY of the time Oswald spent with his father, but was the FIRST person Oswald talked to about the death of his mother and has been there for basically every feel since his mother died.
We cannot, in this case, chalk it up to Edās ineptitude with attachment and emotions and say he picked one parent at random, guessing one was as painful for Oswald to recall as the other. Ed has VERY EXPLICITLY been shown what effects his motherās death has had on Oswald. It nearly destroyed him. And Ed watched all of that, he HELPED Oswald through most of it. Ed knows, letās not discredit him here.
We can of course bring up the practicalities of clayface impersonating Elijah vs. Gertrude and one being slightly easier to pull off. And, who knows, there may have been scheduling issues getting Carol Kane vs. Paul Reubens, but I donāt think it ever got that far. I think the writers knew from the start it was going to be dad. Because that makes way more sense for the effect Ed wanted to have.
And this is where I really take issue with Edās ādestroyingā Oswald thing, because I think heās lying, or at least exaggerating. Ed DEFINITELY needs to work out his feelings, no question, but as frectacled so rightly puts it, Ed also wants to heal. And he even wants to heal their relationship. So he canāt want to devastate Oswald completely. And thatās what bringing back his mother would have done.Ā
Bringing back dad freaks Oswald out, and thatās what Ed needs. Oswald starts acting erratically, I mean⦠more that usual, he looks crazy on national TV, heās really thrown for a loop. Given all of this was, ostensibly, to damage Oswaldās political career, thatās perfect, thatās exactly what Ed wanted. But the psychological damage? Not permanent. Even the political damage come to that, but thatās an argument for after the new episode. But no, this is a weird spell in Oswaldās life and it knocks him out for a couple days, but Edās not going to keep this up. Give it a week, Oswald will write it up to cheese before bed or bad wine or even sabotage if Oswald is PARTICULARLY together at the time, which would be nice. But heāll get over it, he wonāt be scarred for life because his dead dad haunted him briefly. ESPECIALLY as the haunting is now resolved in a fairly satisfying way. Although⦠all the evidence mysteriously ādisappearedā and I GUESS that might throw Oswald off for a little while longer, but again, it wonāt be significant, heāll snap out of it. And this alone isnāt the end goal of Edās plan, so no worries, this is only stage one. By the time Oswaldās over this, Ed will already have something else to hit him with. This is an exhaustion game, Edās just running him ragged until X and at X the game will be over and Ed will get whatever he thinks he wants. I mean⦠assuming everything goes the way Ed wants it to go which is a VERY grand assumption, but⦠sure, sure, letās go with that : |
So, I have sort of already argued that what Ed got out of bringing back dad was in fact what he wanted the whole time. Unbalance Oswald just long enough to make him look crazy and keep him from thinking about whatās really going on here. Because Oswald is so caught in the emotional razor wires of this, he isnāt together enough to stand back and analyze this and realize heās being played. And, to Edās credit, thatās masterful understanding and manipulation of who Oswald is, so⦠good job, Ed.
But now letās look at what bringing back mom would have done AND why Ed did not want that. First of all, Oswald wouldnāt have wanted to do anything. At all. He would have dissolved to tears in a matter of seconds and continued to be nonfunctional for literal days. That is how deep his pain and unpacked guilt over his mother goes. Remember he shot a guy for insulting the importance of the breaking of his motherās statue. This is not emotional dynamite one just breaks out for any old occasion. You have to truly want to incapacitate him. So, if Ed had done this, Oswald would not have gone after the body, he would not have done the interview, he just would have stayed in his house and cried and prayed to see his mother again. He would have had no motivation to do anything at all and PROBABLY would have in fact NEEDED Ed to resurface to help him out of this AGAIN. Like, letās all remember the fact that they imprinted on each other when Ed faced down a knife to his throat from Oswald Cobblepot, the motherfucking Penguin, and told him he was weak for loving his mother and free now that she was gone. Letās ALL remember that THATāS what it took to bring Oswald back from the brink the FIRST time.
So, if political sabotage is Edās aim, this absolutely does not work, because while Oswald is completely nonfunctional and ineffectual now, itās all private and can easily be covered up. Like, letās be real 99% of politicians are ineffectual, thatās hardly news or even a criticism really. But psychologically. Psychologically, if Edās true aim is DESTROYING Oswald? Then job well done, mission accomplished, because without SERIOUS therapeutic help and, again, Ed HIMSELF turning up to help him, Oswald might never recover. He might have quit politics and crime to go be depressed about his mother for fucking ever. I am not even exaggerating, we know what Oswaldās attachment to his mother is, weāve seen what he does to himself and others in the name of it. So, if you really wanted to destroy him? On a permanent basis? You know what youād pick.
And thatās my whole point. Thatās not what Ed wants. Ed HAD that option, he EASILY understands the extent of the damage he could have done to Oswald if he had brought his mother back instead, and he doesnāt. And I very strongly feel that is very intentional, Ed does not at all want to destroy Oswald. Not in that way, not in a permanent setting.
And I think thatās relevant, I think itās important to understand that whatever pain Ed gives him now is not intended to be permanent. Itās intended to be something Oswald can survive. Edās looking to the future and in his future he DOES see a continued relationship with Oswald, in whatever capacity. And what he does now is engineered toward that aim. Because otherwise he could have ended it right here and now. Ed has the power, he has the means to REALLY do harm to Oswald if he so chose. But he doesnāt.
And I just wanted to say that before the next episode could air, for context, so we all have a little more understanding of what Edās parameters and goals are. I think itās fascinating to see he has clear limits on the kind of pain he wants to deliver. So do consider this when youāre weighing up what Ed does to him.
I wonāt pretend to know what Edās end goal is, I have a few rough ideas and theories, but I canāt say for sure at this stage. But I know he has one and it isnāt going to be a future without Oswald in it, that Iām sure of.
This post is obviously old, but holy cow did it leave me shook and really does make u think. Ed really could have destroyed Oswald beyond repair, but didn’t. And despite shooting Oswald in the end, we did get to see just how much of an impact Oswald’s ‘death’ had on Ed. Had he really destroyed Oswald psychologically by using Gertrud, I somehow doubt Ed would have forgiven himself.
Presentingā¦.The Use ofĀ āFreakā in Gotham (so far)
Lisa and I have been talking about this for months (especially regarding itās pejorative queer-coded use) and I have (finally) collected every (as of 4×03) reference
to someone in Gotham being called a freak or being described as one:
Unsurprisingly Oswald and Strangeās Monsters are called freak the most, with Azrael, Bridgit, and Ed tied for second place.Ā
The only people to self identify as a freak are Ivy and Oswald.Ā
Cops are the biggest users of the word, accounting for almost 1/3 of these (and Bullock accounting for more than half of those).Ā Ā
None of Strangeās Monsters are ever referred to directly as freak. Oswald is referred to directly 3 times, and Bridgit and Ed are referred to directly 2 times.Ā
Freak is used almost exclusively used for villains and true to comics, villains of a particular type. Even when Fish has powers, sheās wasnāt called a freak, and Mafiosi are never freaks, only masked villains (to quote Harvey āanother freak in a mask, awesomeā) and those with super abilities. (Which makes Oswald here so interesting since in the comics heās much closer to a gangster type, and in Gotham too, than the freakish masked villain type, hence the queer-coded pejorative discussion. Ogden Barker calls Oswald a freak immediately after referring to him as a āfruitcake leprechaun so⦠And both Ed and Oswald end up killing someone in reaction to being called a freak)
Thereās a ton more info in the document (including the full line, who said it, if at was said directly, and if it was a self identification) which can be found hereĀ but this feels like enough to be getting on with. And Iāll update the list as we go through s4,Ā
[*] at the beginning of the quote means the line refers to more than one person and has been entered again separately for each personĀ
oswald gets called a freak even more than iād thought, poor thing. no wonder he uses it for himself – likeĀ āpenguinā, sometimes itās better to take a word for yourself to lessen the sting and take back some power. iām sad they havenāt followed through with the whole freak family thing so far this season for exactly that reason; it was such a nice idea. and i 100% agree about the whole queercoding thing.
(also, it doesnāt surpise me at all that harvey is the one calling people freaks most of the time. that kind of thing seems to be his shtick.)
I feel like someone with more patience than me could do a whole essay on Gothamās use of food and eating in relation to life and death and relationshipsā¦
It would probably end up being largely Oswald centric, but thereās a pretty strong thread there with Ed tooā¦
Oswald killed two people for sandwiches (admittedly it was a secondary motive the second time but still, he did very much stab a dude then buy a sandwich with the money he looted off the corpse), and got his second chance in the underworld via a job at a restaurant. He poisons his co-conspirators with cannoli, and eats an apple while watching a guy get tortured for information. He makes a sandwich in Loebās kitchen as a power display, and when heās lost everything itās stealing another sandwich from Edās corpse-burying picnic that leads to him being saved. In Arkham heās beaten up over ice cream, and in his brainwashed state he brings the trio cupcakes as a peace offering. Grace insults his motherās recipes and shortly thereafter he serves her her own children butchered and roastedā¦
Then thereās Ed – with his mildly creepy food offerings to Kristen (cupcake with a bullet in it, watermelon left over from where he was testing a theory on how a guyās skull got caved inā¦), and his gourmet cooking and advanced fondue knowledge. Plus you have the fact that his dark half hid Kristenās hand in a snack machine and the⦠creepy as fuck song chosen to accompany that whole thing on the soundtrack comparing women to literal pieces of meat.Ā
And of course Nygmobblepot is basically built on Chinese take out, spicy mustard and ginger teaā¦
Side note; I think Iāve mentioned it before but thereās a LOT of cannibalism in season 2. Like, three unrelated Arkham inmates, plus Eduardo Flamingo, plus Oswald getting his Titus Andronicus on with his step siblings⦠itās a thing.
Thatās not even all of it, and thereās plenty more with other characters, but yeah. Food in Gotham, itās a topic.
This may not be that good of an addition, butĀ psychologically speaking, when eating food, your brain unconsciously registers that you are safe/relaxed, as you would not be eating if you were panicked. Thatās one of the reasons people ācomfort eatā and whatnot.Ā So in a nutshell, when people see/eat food, they feel safe.
It is clear that Oswaldās mother is the only person in his whole life that have loved him and cared for him, and has kept him safe, and itās I think itās fair to assume that as an Eastern European woman, Mrs. Kappleput offering food to guests is a sign of good faith and welcoming.Ā This is usually known as offeringĀ āBread and saltā. With Oswaldās loyalty and love towards his mother, it is likely he would also see food offering as a way of showing people his welcoming attitude. It is always a way to flaunt wealth, but considering Oswald doesnāt really care about money, I doubt that that is his objective.
But being the prick he is, he uses this fake use of trust as a way to attack his enemies before they even know they are his enemies, mainly referring to the cannoli scene.
Secondly, gaining a job as a dish washer to gain access to Maroni, was probably more motivated by the fact that he could blend a lot more easily into the background as a dishwasher, so he could slither his way up Maroniās gang. That being said, Although Oswald has no direct link to the food, he is using the psychology ofĀ āI am safe when I eatā. When Maroni and his gang are sitting, eating, and discussing their plans, they are not in a state of alert, allowing Os to be there without gaining their unwanted attention.
Also, just to point out, (not that I know from experience), but sometimes fighting and being shot and shoved into a lake and travelling makes you hungry. You ever see that snickers ad? āYouāre not you when youāre hungryā. That describes Oswald. Plus, as mentioned, food = safety/relaxation, this can show his state of casualness. Especially in a position of power, eating is a hell of a lot more intimidating. ie. āThis crazy person is casually eating an apple while I am here scared out of my mind and shitting my pants⦠If thatās him at casual, I donāt wanna see him angry.ā
And on that note, I believe you are completely right about the power play while making a sandwich at Leobās. As I did mention before, offering food is a sign of wealth and greeting, but when someone comes in and takes it⦠It undermines Leobās status as an authority figure, and a man of wealth, stealing both of those things from him in the swift motion of making a sandwich (and Iām sure Victor holding a gun to Leobās head probably had something to do with that too).
In Arkham, when he is given ice cream, this is directly after heās been tortured, so he clearly wasnāt in the right state of mind, as was intended to show. This would be the first time (Iām going to assume) that Oswaldās offering of food has ended with him getting hurt. Being genuinelyĀ kind did not go well for Oswald; being kind is not who he is supposed to be.
Once he meets his father, and he has dinner with hisĀ ānew familyā, it brings back that sense of security and safety for Oswald. Even after his father dies, he still continues to cook as to be a part of the illusion of that safe family environment. He even uses a recipe that his mother would have made.Ā Since heās already gained her trust by having already cooked multiple meals, it makes it easy to get his revenge by messing with the food- something that he has clearly already done before. Oswald was able to have a taste of what life would have been with his father before he died, so why not show his step-mother what her children taste like before she dies š
So it comes full circle: Oswald growing up with his motherās cooking, a woman that wouldāve used food as a gesture of good faith, and, when grown up, Oswald uses that facade of good faith to murder or maim (via the food or not), or uses otherās phycological belief that they are safe when eating, and strikes when their guard is down.
I know this isnāt the best essay, and most of it is just personal opinion and observation (and it is nearly 12am, and Iām tired as heck), but when you mentioned about Oswald and food, I thought that was a very interesting subject to bring up. Ed on the other hand, I think is just a crazy motherfucker (Also, too tired to analyse his crazy food ethics right now). But I hope you gain a little enjoyment and/or insight š Please add to or correct anything I have said.
āKristen is the one person who like, floods him with this history of who he used to be and what he used to want, and he canāt help but be like, consumed by what could potentially be a second chance.ā
Cory says that Isabella brings Edward back to who he was before he killed Kristen. Yet Edward has repeatedly said that he likes who he is now, and he is certainly āhitting his strideā working for Oswald. Cory has said that Edward enjoys working for Penguin and has fun manipulating things in his favor, itās literally the perfect job for him.
He has everything he wants.
Going off of that, when Ed said āwhat more could anyone ask forā to Oswald I feel like he was saying it too, y’know? He is just so happy where he is right now.
I think that he truly does not want to go back to who he was, but I also think that heās going to explore the possibility and entertain the idea for the time being with Isabella anyway. This is because he wants to be sure that Oswald- and a life of Riddles⢠ and Crime⢠– are what he truly wants
Which, I mean, DUH. Heās gonna become The Riddler, of course he doesnāt want Isabella and what she represents. She is a kind of metaphor for what Edward used to want, and where he wanted it from: love, praise, and acceptance from peers. He still wants those things, those feelings, but he is receiving them from a different source. Right now, he is getting what he truly desires more than anything from Oswald, and through more nefarious means than Kristen (ānormalcyā) offered.
TD;DR Ed is getting closure from his old life by using Isabella. This is part of his his journey to becoming The Riddler; he needs to completely leave Kristen and everything she represents behind in order to fully commit. But this is Gotham so of course itās going to go horribly wrong š
gaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh *crying*
-pats your head-
I know⦠I knowā¦
Fuck⦠it went horribly wrong, just like I thought when she was first introduced.
As in Ed didnāt let go of her through a conscious decision; Oswald made the decision for him
He is getting closer to becoming the Riddler
Hopefully he will realize that Oswald still satisfies what he needs most š
I havenāt seen episode 2 yet, but Iāve heard that Ivy apparently hates Oswald now, and that he had it coming because heās been being a dick to her, and I have a few thoughts on that.
People have been saying that Oswald doesnāt learn his lessons and keeps getting stuck in the same patterns, and yeah, thereās definite merit to that, but my take on it is that he mostly just keeps picking the wrong parts of his experiences to learn from.
And it really is so sad and such a hard lesson to learn when you’ve been put down time and time again. I personally know EXACTLY how Oswald feels and I really have wanted to just shut off any sort of compassion and trust for that same reason because the end result is always too risky and painful, but like you said it just doesn’t work. No matter how much one may hate the idea of getting close to people for fear of betrayal and hurt, it’s just impossible to do. As human beings we’re social creatures who need interaction and help to survive. And yeah it sucks. It really does. Especially when you have suffered and lost precious people like Ozzie has.
Ultimatley, Oswald does need to learn to get past this. But after, no doubt, so many years of being put down and stomped on, and especially since this seems to stem from early childhood too, it will be really difficult. Changing such a mindset will take a lot of work. Months and years even, depending on how deep the hurt and wounds extend. Though it doesn’t just come down to Oswald in doing all the work. He also needs other people by his side who can see and understand this. To help him through this and help him realize this. Of course, people willing to be patient and really understand, without judging or leaving is really hard to find. Especially in a place like Gotham.
I know Oswald during this time will yeah, be shitty likely, and try to push others harder away, but others have to understand his point of view and remain firm and stay by his side. Again patience and comprehension is important. Especially loyalty. Then maybe they can start to change his views.
I really hope we can see Oswald grow as a character and come back stronger once he realizes this, while still being the adorable and cunning bird we love.
like,, i know oswald cobblepot is kind of a giant murdery crab and is mean to ivy and literally everyone else but,,, how can u not just,,,, Love Him with Every Part of U
Literally me, but in a way I think I understand why he is being especially cold. I mean, this is after he froze the man that he loves, the man who tried to destroy him in every way possible, and kill him. Oswald has always been strong and a survivor, able to easily see through any manipulation people try to throw at him, however, when it came to Ed. He couldn’t. Love weakened him.
I can’t imagine how painful it must be for him to realize and think that one of the people he cared so much about could never love him back, but also hurt him so much, in such a way, that he could not see coming.
So, of course he’s decided to squash down his emotions and likely not want to get close to anyone ever again – be it friendship, romantically, emotionally, etc. Why? Because experience has taught him that such a thing only leads to pain, betrayal, and death.
It also makes me wonder if these wounds come from early in his childhood? “Don’t listen to the other children. You’re handsome and clever. And one day you will be a great man.” This is what his mother would tell him. And we all know how hurtful bullying and the like can be. It’s a no wonder why Oswald may be shutting down his emotios and connection with others. Not to mention this is Gotham. Everyone will always trample and kill you to get what they want. Manipulate you. Use you. Play you like a fool. Even people you thought were your friends. So, again this is like reaffirmation that people will only hurt you. Thus, things like trust and frienship is fleeting. Much less things like love. It’s a weakness to be exploited.
That’s not to excuse his behavior, especially towards Ivy, but I think looking at things from this perspective and psychologically may explain why he is being cold to her. If such emotional connection only leads to deep hurt, then it isn’t worth to risk it and put yourself in any danger.